Magic happens when people get together to change the world, so that’s what we did to create our vision for a Dementia Friendly North Berwick.
After 6 months of talking to people, chapping on doors and walking the streets of North Berwick we finally held our Dementia Friendly Community event on Tuesday. We reckon about 100 folk came through the doors of the Hope Rooms to help us transform our town. What a range of people! Local shopkeepers, volunteers, people with dementia and their families and friends; care providers, policy makers and service providers all came together to talk, share their ideas and maybe sample a scone or two (baked by our fabulous North Berwick Youth Cafe – thank you guys!).
In the centre of the room we had large maps of North Berwick, Dirleton, Gullane and Aberlady and Laura and Andy helped folk to tell us where were the great places to go and what made them good. We have a wealth of great places to go! Our very own North Berwick Day Centre and care homes, cafes, pubs and garden centres, museums and golf clubs and of course the beach. Even the RNLI got a mention for being friendly and taking time to explain about their work. What made a place great was the people – friendly, supportive, kind and respectful people make good places and good services great – simples. This really is all about people.
Sandra from the Community Centre set up a massive net for us to catch everyone’s ideas for making things better. What a catch!
- Things to do and places to go – physical exercise, dancing, music and reminiscence all featured a lot, with a reminder that transport is critical and places need to be accessible and dementia friendly
- To be treated with respect and understanding – for example by shop keepers and paid care providers, through training, information and advice
- Advice and support for people with dementia, their families and carers, including about what’s on and legal matters and
- Support for (unpaid) carers and their important role
- To build more connections across generations between older and younger people in our community
A real high spot was when Helen from Fidra Nursing Home and 3 of her residents led us all in a hand jive dance to the Proclaimers 500 Miles. You can see from the faces that it was great fun and something we could all do together.
So what next? Sandra is writing up the day so we can share all the great ideas more widely with our community. We’ll be looking for offers of help to make things happen. Who can provide some training? How can we help local shops and services? How can we support local carers more? We’ve got some really good ideas for small things that will make a big difference, and that of course is what it’s all about.
We’ll also be talking to other communities who are interested in becoming Dementia Friendly too. We did all this with a small grant (£500) from the Community Centre and a lot of goodwill and active support from volunteers and paid staff from a whole range of bodies and organisations. Yet again it shows that changing the world is not really about money, it’s about people.
Our hope and belief is that by making our community a better more supportive place for people with Dementia we will not just improve their quality of life, we will also help people stay safely and happily in their own homes for as long as they want to. Research shows the importance of social connections to our health and well being and we know that living with dementia can be a very scary, lonely and risky existence. I know that for my Mum, when she feels understood, respected and supported she is calmer, happier and healthier, who doesn’t?
As Mum would say, it’s all about living and not existing.
Massive thanks to everyone who made it such a great day. It really was a day to remember and the start of the next stage of our journey.